How do I handle constant questions and pressure from family?

Your feelings are valid — constant questions can be painful even when meant lovingly. A few approaches: agree together as a couple what you're comfortable sharing; prepare one short, warm line like 'We'll share news when there's something to share — thank you for caring'; and change the subject calmly after saying it once. If one relative is especially intrusive, ask your spouse or a trusted elder to speak to them privately. You can also limit time at events that are hard. If it's affecting your sleep or mood, a counsellor can help you plan conversations. Protecting your peace isn't rude.