Community guidelines

This is a space for people dealing with fertility, treatment and everything around it. Our promise: you can ask anything, anonymously, without being judged or sold to.

Please do

  • Share your experience in your own words — what you tried, what you felt, what you wish you'd known.
  • Be kind. Everyone here is carrying something heavy, and many are in the middle of treatment.
  • Add useful detail (age range, how long you've been trying, tests done) — never names or contact details.
  • Use 'Report' when something feels wrong. Reports are anonymous.

Please don't

  • Abuse, shaming, blaming, hate or harassment of any kind.
  • Phone numbers, emails, links or social handles — they're screened out to stop spam, scams and privacy leaks.
  • Promoting a clinic, product, supplement or 'cure'. Sharing a personal experience is fine; selling is not.
  • Questions or tips about choosing or finding out a baby's sex — illegal in India (PCPNDT Act).
  • Buying, selling or arranging eggs, sperm, embryos, surrogates or abortion drugs.
  • Telling someone to take, stop or change a medicine dose. Ask your doctor.
  • Claiming to be a doctor. Doctors can apply to be verified and get a badge.

How we keep it safe

  1. Screening before posting. Every question and reply is checked for abuse, contact details, spam, promotion and unsafe content. Clear violations are stopped; borderline ones wait for a person.
  2. Cooldowns. Repeated violations pause posting for a day; persistent ones lose posting rights for good (tied to the email, so a new browser doesn't reset it).
  3. Community reports. Three people reporting a post hides it automatically until a moderator looks.
  4. People in the loop. A moderator reviews held posts and reports. Posts that suggest someone is in distress go to the front of the queue.
  5. Verified doctors. Doctors are checked against their medical registration before they get a badge, and follow stricter rules: general guidance only, no diagnosis, no promotion.

No filter is perfect. If something slips through, please report it.

Signing in & anonymity

Anyone can read. To ask, reply, like or report you confirm your email with a 6-digit code — no password. Your email is private: it is never shown to other members, and we use it only to run the community and keep it safe (stop repeat abusers, show you your own posts under “Mine”).

For every question and reply you choose whether to post anonymously — you then appear under a friendly name that is different in every thread — or under a nickname you pick, which gives you a small public profile listing only those nickname posts. You can report any post, comment or profile, including doctor profiles; reports are private.

Nothing here is medical advice. Read our privacy policy and terms.

If you're struggling

Fertility treatment can be heavy. Free, confidential support:

  • 14416 — Tele-MANAS (24×7, free, government of India)
  • 9152987821 — iCall (TISS, counselling)

In immediate danger, call 112.