Most clinics give you a printed list of what to bring on retrieval day, and most of those lists miss the things that actually make the day easier. Here's the list that comes from people who've actually been through it.
For the procedure itself
- Loose, comfortable clothes — drawstring trousers or a maxi dress, not jeans
- Easy slip-on footwear (you'll be groggy on the way out)
- A hairband or scrunchie
- Glasses if you wear contacts — you'll be asked to remove lenses before anaesthesia
- Your file with all reports, ID, and the consent forms the clinic asked you to bring
- Cash or a card — even cashless clinics sometimes need on-the-day extras
For after the procedure
- Pads (not tampons) — a few hours of light bleeding is common
- A small water bottle for the car ride home
- Lip balm — anaesthesia leaves your mouth dry
- A light shawl or stole — recovery rooms are often cold
- Plain crackers or a banana if you have a long ride home
For the partner / person waiting
- A fully charged phone and a charger — waits can be 3–5 hours
- A laptop or book if you don't want to scroll the whole time
- Snacks — clinic cafeterias close at odd hours
- The car seat reclined or a cushion ready for the ride home
The night before
- Pack the bag the night before, not on the morning of
- Set out the clothes you'll wear in the morning
- No food after the cut-off time the clinic gave you (usually midnight)
- No nail polish, no perfume, no jewellery on retrieval day
- Pre-pay or settle paperwork the day before if your clinic allows it
The day after
You'll likely feel bloated and tender for 2–3 days. Useful to have ready at home:
- Loose pyjamas — anything with a tight waistband will be unwearable
- Coconut water or electrolyte sachets (the clinic will tell you how much to drink)
- Soft, easy meals — khichdi, soup, curd rice
- A heating pad for cramps
- Whichever painkiller your clinic has approved (don't self-medicate)
- One easy show or a comfort book — nothing requiring brainpower
Worth buying ahead
Most of this list is already at home. These are the few things people tend to buy for retrieval week:
Warm non-slip socks
Best for: Cold prep and recovery rooms
You'll be barefoot in a gown for most of the prep. Grip soles matter when you're groggy afterwards.
What to look for
- Non-slip grip soles
- Soft cotton or wool blend
Loose drawstring lounge pants
Best for: The ride home and the bloated days after
Anything with a tight waistband is uncomfortable for 2–3 days after retrieval.
What to look for
- Drawstring or soft elastic waist
- Breathable cotton
- One size up from usual
Electric heating pad
Best for: Cramping at home (check with your clinic first)
Many people find gentle warmth soothing for post-retrieval cramps. Ask your clinic whether heat is fine for you.
What to look for
- Adjustable heat settings
- Auto shut-off
- Washable cover
Water bottle with time markers
Best for: Keeping up with the fluids your clinic asks for
Hourly markings make it easy to see whether you're drinking enough.
What to look for
- 1 litre or more
- Leak-proof lid
That's the whole list. Don't overthink it.
